
Is it really all good?
“It’s all good!” That’s what the guy at the convenience store said to me. I couldn’t help thinking how incredibly wrong he was. Life is not all good! I mean, how are you supposed to tell a child in Iraq that’s lost his family to the war that it’s all good? Or what about the parent that’s lost their child to a drunk driver? There are so many things in life that are simply not all good, that the sentiment just seems utterly foolish.
And then what about all the little, day to day things in our lives that are simply not all good? What about the days that you wake up with a sore throat and stuffed up nose? These are not all good days. Or what about those days when it feels like everything and everyone is against you? These are not all good days either.
I guess I should probably stop before I get us all depressed about the state of life. It’s just that I think that what people need is not more “fortune cookie” type sentiment, but truth. People don’t need to hear that life is all good. What they need to be reminded of is that much of life is really very good.
Right now in the pub I’m working at the radio is playing the song, “Everybody Hurts”, and while that is very true, what we often forget in the midst of our pain is that everyone experiences joy as well.
This past spring I had the chance to go to the jungles of Papua, Indonesia, and one of the things that caught me totally off guard was how joyful these people were. They have nothing really to speak of, and they have half the life span we have, but they’re filled with so much joy so much of the time. Every child we saw had a constant, terrible cold, but they were always laughing, smiling and enjoying life.
I think the problem is that our difficulties, our sorrows, the ways that life is not all good have a tendency to give us tunnel vision. It’s like all we can see are the things that suck about life, and we miss the very real joys that are all around us.
So, today I’m going to acknowledge the fact that life is not all good, but I’m going to choose to focus on the ways that life truly is good.